Jan 29, 20195 min read
On Pronouns
I have always found that one of the most frustrating things about being trans is that there’s no way for a cis person to feel what I feel. This is especially true since it’s an aspect of identity that’s defined entirely by feeling. Being trans isn’t something you can see about a person. You can see their gender presentation , but the feeling of being trans - the thing that makes us trans - is abstract, and may or may not correspond with how someone looks. “Transness” is invis